Are You Participating in Recruitment?

by greekforme on February 5, 2010

If you’re getting ready to participate in your first sorority recruitment, it’s important to remember that all of the things you’ve heard might not be true. Recruitment isn’t like how they make it seem in the movies. In fact, it’s a lot more meaningful and can be a fantastic experience for any young woman in college. As a great opportunity to get involved with campus life, as well as meet new people, sorority recruitment might be one of the best things that you do in your college career. Make it count!

Here’s a few things to keep in mind when you’re participating in recruitment. First of all, remember to be yourself! Too many girls try to be someone they are not in order to make an impression. Instead, let your true self shine as it’ll make you stand out from the rest of the crowd. Be sure to have genuine and honest conversations with other sorority members and candidates. Spend some time getting to know them and expose yourself to their interests and views. Don’t try to lie about yourself to make yourself seem larger than life. Just be yourself, have a good time, and use this opportunity to make some great connections.

Also, if you are participating as a recruitment candidate, remember to seek out accurate information from both the sorority and the university regarding how recruitment works. Don’t believe the rumors or the so-called “horror stories.” Instead, be proactive. Educate yourself. Let the sorority know that you are familiar with how the system works. Also, keep an open mind throughout the entire process and try to find a group that makes you feel most comfortable. Finally, have fun! Sorority recruitment is supposed to be enjoyed!

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The iPad and You, By Spenser Tang-Smith

by greekforme on February 1, 2010

Technology has become such an important part of our lives, and has really helped connect different fraternities and sororities to each other. Could you imagine not being able to “friend” your own fraternity or sorority on Facebook, or not be able to get a feel of an organization’s personality by following them on Twitter? Technology, like the new Apple iPad, allows us to connect and share ideas, whether it’s across campus or across the country. Today we welcome guest blogger Spenser Tang-Smith, who will be sharing his insightful thoughts on the new Apple iPad.

Spenser is in charge of operations at WebGreek and writes for WebGreek’s blog, discussing issues in the Greek community.

The iPad and You, by Spenser Tang-Smith

By now, I’m sure you’ve all heard about the newest Apple device, a tablet computer called the iPad.  You probably also have heard or read the State of the Union speech, also last night, during which our president reiterated his commitment to jobs, as well as outlining a plan for reducing the burden of student loans.  I find it a little bit disturbing that the iPad announcement took 90 minutes, the same amount of time as Obama’s speech, and gained equal press coverage.  But then again, that could mean that the iPad is just as important.

First of all, this thing is way sweet.  Multi-touch is an awesome and intuitive way to interact with the internet, and make no mistake, the iPad is primarily a web surfing device.  Anyone with an iPhone or an iTouch already knows how to use it.  In addition, the app store, with its 140,000 apps, is available for download, and the iPhone apps you’re used to are compatible with the iPad.

Of course, the media immediately latched on to some jokes related to the name of the device, but beyond the hype and the immediate criticism, the iPad is potentially a very useful device for college students.  Weighing only a pound and a half and looking way cool as only an Apple device can, this thing is portable and will turn some heads.  Attractively priced at $499 for 18 gigs of storage, the computer is a great alternative to the netbooks, such as the Eee pc, that are currently dominating the cheap, mega-portable webtop computer market.  Unfortunately, you will have to cough up another $130 for a 3G model, but even if you don’t, you will be able to use the plentiful WiFi around campus.

There has been a lot of criticism, as if Apple was expected to unveil something out of Avatar.  People have yelped about the lack of Flash (meaning YouTube and most other embedded videos won’t work), the inability to multitask, no camera, and being beholden unto AT&T for 3G service.  First of all, if you have an iPhone, then you’re stuck with AT&T anyway.  No Flash means you won’t be able to view lots of music and gaming websites, but the YouTube app solves most video problems, and other apps will fill the other gaps (am I an iPoet?).

I will say that the absence of a camera is pretty dumb, but beyond Skype video chat, I don’t use the one on my laptop, and I certainly don’t plan on waving a big tablet around when I’m taking pictures.  Most college kids have been given a point and click digital for some birthday or holiday gift.  All in all, I don’t see what the big deal is regarding the lack of camera.  It’s not like the world needs more low-quality recordings of cute kittens.

Finally, with regard to multi-tasking, I find that I’m not so productive when I multi-task, so this may not be such a bad thing.  You will get to run a music player while you surf or type or whatever, just like the iPhone, and unless you’re running complex statistical software while writing a report and rendering an iMovie project at the same time, you should be able to be just as productive as with a clunky Dell or a pricey iMac.  I was a biology major, and most of the statistical stuff was done on software that was provided on the bio lab computers, and all the research and report writing was done on applications that the iPad supports.  With the ability to sync files using something like DropBox, I could certainly imagine using a tablet computer where I once used an iBook.

The iPad is not as futuristic as people had anticipated, but it’s remarkable in the technology that powers it and in the affordability of that technology.  I could see using it as my primary computer, though I would supplement it with a physical keyboard.  The size makes it competitive with paper notepads for taking notes in class, while the apps make it versatile.  You’ll have iWork on it, you can stream all the Will It Blend videos you want, you can email, and best of all, you can control it all with your fingers.  If I hadn’t just gotten a new MacBook to replace my extremely broken iBook, I would consider one.  And if I were in college, or had kids in college, it might be a great way to save some money while still being stylish and cutting edge.  All in all, it’s worth taking a look at.

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Choosing the right fraternity or sorority to rush isn’t an easy decision. You’ll likely be immersed with your sorority Fraternity Apparel, Sorority Apparelsisters or fraternity brothers throughout all the exciting moments of college life, and you want to ensure the organization you’re rushing reflects your interests and personality, and will help make you an even better, well, you!

1. Reflects Your Lifestyle – Many fraternities and sororities align themselves with specific future goals, such as an academic major, religion, interests, and academic scholarship. Request some literature from the organization and ask them about the common thread each member of the organization shares. If you feel any hesitation, search for another organization.

2. Be An Individual – It can be fun to want to rush the same sorority or fraternity as your friends, but they may have different goals in mind when determining their perfect organization. Instead, focus on you, and deciding whether the current members of that organization are people you’re comfortable living with and spending a large portion of your time with. It’s time to focus on making yourself happy, and in turn, you’ll meet many wonderful, new friends!

3. Know The Requirements - Many Greek organizations do have specific housing and academic requirements. Be sure to ask about these, and understand what is expected of you. It’s great to motivate yourself to higher academic scholarship, but be sure your current academic success shows you can meet and exceed their requirements. Otherwise, you’ll only be stressed and anxious trying to reach goals that weren’t as close as you had hoped.

4. Limit Distractions – The stereotype of sororities and fraternities being only about parties and questionable activities is certainly alive, however the actual number of Greek organizations who embody this stereotype are very few. Just be sure the sorority or fraternity you’re rushing has a solid reputation. You can still have fun, but partying every night will only hinder your future success.

5. Inquire About Initiation Activities – Most hazing activities that can result in physical harm have been banned, and the sororities and fraternities of today are respectable, committed to community service, and have great scholastic achievements. However, it can’t hurt to ask them about their different initiation activities, and what would happen if you decline to participate in any of them. You’ll learn throughout your college years that believing in yourself and trusting your own judgment is key, so it’s vital that their practices are in line with your convictions.

You’re in the driver’s seat when it comes to choosing the ideal Greek organization for you. Taking the time to search for the organization you feel best about will pay off in tons of wonderful memories down the road. Once you do find it, you know where to shop for Sorority Apparel and Fraternity Apparel ;-)

Happy rushing!

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Why Should I Join a Fraternity?

by greekforme on January 22, 2010

One’s college career is more than just a collection of GPAs and notebooks filled with classwork. College is something to be cherished and enjoyed. College is meant to give you the skills and knowledge needed to succeed. College encourages the discipline and motivation needed to pursue one’s goals. College connects you not only with yourself, but also with others. To put it simply, college really is an experience.
So, if you’re a current college student or a high school senior looking to prepare for the transition into campus life, it’s important to learn about fraternities that may be available for you to join. Joining a fraternity really rounds out the college experience and enables you to join with other students to enhance both the campus community and your overall academic experience. Fraternities can offer lifelong friends, opportunities for leadership, social events, sports and games, academic support, networking opportunities, and the chance to be your very best.

Consider fraternities on your campus and what they have to offer. They may just be the missing piece in your complete college experience.

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Greeks Against Sexual Assault, by Kingsley Grafft

by greekforme on January 21, 2010

We recently had the pleasure of meeting Kingsley Grafft, Founder and National Director of Greeks Against Sexual Assault, and she wrote the following guest blog post for us. Sexual assault on college campuses is quickly becoming an epidemic, and with Kingsley’s passion and dedication to educating others about the issue, we can work to help prevent the growing number of sexual assault victims. Kingsley is an exemplary member of Kappa Alpha Theta, and we know her commitment to helping others will only further her future success!

Greeks Against Sexual Assault, by Kingsley Grafft

Becoming a member of the Greek community on your campus is an amazing opportunity. I know that my four years of college would have been far less exciting and entertaining without my sorority sisters, philanthropy events and fraternity parties. And certainly my wardrobe would have been much smaller without my letters, sweatpants, and t-shirts to accompany every event.

During my sophomore year I interned with University of California at Davis’ Campus Violence Prevention Program (CVPP). When I started, I was given one task: get Greeks involved and educate them about sexual assault and domestic violence.

So I began my research and was shocked at what I found.

• 1 out of 4 college women is sexually assaulted
• 50% of sorority women experience some form of sexual coercion
• 10.3% of college rapes happen in a fraternity house
• 90% of sorority women who are sexually assaulted know their assailants
Sources: Copenhaver & Grauerholz, 1991; Fisher, 2000; Warshaw, 1994.

I really believed that Greeks were simply unaware of these statistics; otherwise, they would be doing something to eliminate the problem and provide support to survivors. So in the spring of 2007 I founded Greeks Against Sexual Assault with the hope that I could pass along the information I had learned, and inspire others to make a difference on their own campuses.

The mission statement is this: Greeks Against Sexual Assault works towards increasing awareness, educating, and eliminating sexual assault and dating violence from the Greek community through peer education and activism amongst sororities and fraternities nationwide.

All it takes is a few Greeks to spread awareness and get their campus involved. I’ve been amazed by the programs Greeks have developed nationally and have seen the positive impact they can have. For more information visit us at www.gasanow.org or check out our blog at http://www.loveyounglove.blogspot.com.

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Getting the Right Recommendation

by greekforme on January 14, 2010

Recommendation letters are always an important part of the college experience. From scholarships to applications for leadership positions, recommendation letters give you the backup you need to secure your goal and keep a competitive edge – especially during recruitment season.

When it comes to getting recruited for a sorority, trust us – those letters count. Although most sororities will say that these letters are optional, it’s best to make the effort, especially if you’re attending a major university with a large Greek system. Getting into a sorority on a large campus can be tough and recommendation letters will give you the competitive edge you need to last throughout the recruitment process. The key is to make your letter stick out.

Recommendation letters should be, of course, from someone you know, but more importantly, from an alumnus of a particular sorority or someone who worked closely with that sorority in the past. It doesn’t matter if that person went to a different university or participated in a different era. The point is that the recommendation letter is coming from someone who was a member of that sorority nationwide. This will give you leverage into the sorority and can make you look more appealing when it comes time to selecting new members.

Also keep in mind that most sororities will not accept recommendation letters from someone who is a current member. Sure, they are able to “put in a good word” for you, but are not able, in most cases, to actually fill out a letter. Do your research and ask around. Do you have a friend, family member, or coworker who was a member of your desired sorority? If so, reach out to that person and ask for a recommendation letter. It could make all the difference in your college experience.

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Big Plans for Big Brothers Big Sisters

January 8, 2010

Some of the nation’s largest African American fraternities are starting off National Mentoring Month 2010 with a bold plan for the Big Brothers Big Sisters of America Program. According to a recent press release, the plan involves both individual member and chapter fraternity participation in order to raise the number of black men engaged in [...]

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Writing a Sorority Letter of Intent

December 31, 2009


Trying to join a sorority can be incredibly exciting, however, it can also be pretty nerve-racking. Most sororities ask that women interested in joining to write a letter of intent so that they can get an idea of who you are and why you would add to the organization. If you want to learn how [...]

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Holiday Traditions In Your Chapter

December 21, 2009

This holiday season, many sororities and fraternities are taking some time in between the cramming for finals to celebrate the season and really do some good in the community. Across the nation, various chapters have invested time and effort into throwing charity dances, hosting auctions, volunteering at soup kitchens, donating toys and clothing to underprivileged [...]

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About Delta Sigma Theta

December 11, 2009

We’ve heard a lot about Delta Sigma Theta lately, especially with Disney’s latest release, The Princess and The Frog, which features the movie maker’s first African-American princess. Critics have loved this film for its encouragement of diversity, including Delta Sigma Theta, which has actively campaigned for the film since buzz started about it over a [...]

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